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DISCOVERING YOUR EQ

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  Discovering EQ(emotional quotient) To start with, one can ask what emotion is. Well, emotion is an effective state of consciousness in which joy, sorrow, fear, hate, or the like, is experienced, as distinguished from cognitive and volitional states of consciousness. It can also be taken as a feeling in short. I believe and I think each one of us accepts the fact that all humans have feelings and of course have different ways to express them. Talking about expressing ones emotions or behaviors towards an emotion, this kind of behavior is not that one that defines a person. Here we are talking about that behavior as a reaction that is triggered by the current emotion. One can also define that behavior as a way one reacts due to his emotions. Let's say someone is feeling Happy or is made happy, how does the person express his happy feelings? Does he shout? Cry? Talk of some one angry. How does that angry person react? Anger is the feeling here or the emotion inside that person. So...

child abuse in families

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Child abuse in families Many of us think that child abuse is all about physical abuse towards children but we don't know that it's more of that. It can be physical, sexual and psychological. And it's not done by outsiders only. Parents and  caregivers also abuse their children. Child abuse comes in different forms, some do it willingly and others abuse children unknowingly. In different communities all over the world you will witness child abuse and no matter what people have done to put an end to it, others don't listen. Many parents are still beating their children everyday and still want them to do multiple jobs ignoring their scars and wounds. Well some do it saying that it's a way of disciplining their children or they say they will understand more quickly if I put pressure on them or beat them if they did something wrong. But others do beat their children out of stress or when they feel they don't want them or many other different things like alcohol or ...

Rape

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  Rape as known and heard by many, has been taking greater steps as years goes by and victims keep on increasing whereby, men also are getting raped as we speak now.  Rape being unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim has many despicable effects that even made many of the victims commit suicide. Why rape in the first place? What's influencing rapists?  We have to know that rape didn't start in this generation rather it's been happening for some many centuries only that these days it's recognized and in the past years women had no other option but to give in since culture at times had a hand in it whereby men forced their wives to sleep with them or young girls but it wasn't considered as rape. Due to the fact that men had great power over women and they could do anything with them, meaning their righ...