Rape

 

Rape as known and heard by many, has been taking greater steps as years goes by and victims keep on increasing whereby, men also are getting raped as we speak now. 

Rape being unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim has many despicable effects that even made many of the victims commit suicide. Why rape in the first place? What's influencing rapists? 

We have to know that rape didn't start in this generation rather it's been happening for some many centuries only that these days it's recognized and in the past years women had no other option but to give in since culture at times had a hand in it whereby men forced their wives to sleep with them or young girls but it wasn't considered as rape. Due to the fact that men had great power over women and they could do anything with them, meaning their rights weren't considered. So far women have been considered and no man has the right to mess with them any how, the law do punish them severely but still rape hasn't stopped but rather cases have increased. Some used to say it's due to how girls and women have been wearing unproperly and it has been influencing rapists. But what about those women in Arab countries? If it was really due to the ways of dressing those Arab countries couldn't have any single rape case but still it happens. 

Yes some dressing manners can give ideas to those rapists but still it isn't a cause due to the fact that the idea of raping someone happens to be a psychological problem or that mindset where one has the desire to have someone and they get obsessed till the time they get violent. So it's not a matter of one exposing herself it's all about being obsessed and ending up doing the despicable. I can also agree to the fact that some women out there tend to be careless with the way they dress which can of course give ideas to rapists. But they also use that to get men. Not every man is attracted to women with the way they dress only those that already are obsessed with sex or the need to have sex. Some women also force young boys  to sleep with them mostly threatening them that  they will deprive them of something or do other worse things  and end up forcing them to have  sex, but those boys and men don't report saying that they will humiliate themselves but rape is rape afterall it doesn't have gender though many cases are girls and women  and it was like that for so long now. But it's useless to hold on to your pride and hide the evil doers. 

Some say it's being possessed. But come to think of it, some fathers rape their own children, leave alone a random guy raping a random girl. We are talking about a daughter being raped by her own father. What could that be if not demonic powers. This is nothing but the highest state of insanity. Even if your wife doesn't satisfy you it doesn't give you the idea to make your daughter your wife. Not your daughter at all. And trust me such cases have increased and now even those young children are victims very small kids are being raped in some families out here. I can't blame those that say the world is coming to an end cause this surely shows that the devil is seriously at work. So sad, so evil right? If only such people knew what the rape victims undergo after rape.

By the way they even know but only the devil inside them, that obsession, that rage and desire to have sex doesn't allow them to think twice or have mercy. The law has punished many so far but each day we get to hear rape cases. What people don't know is that raping someone is like murdering them. Well, the effects of rape and what one goes through after rape is no less than death it'self. Some even can't take it and they commit suicide, or decide to live in isolation cause they don't seem to be free around people, they trust no one. I read somewhere that there is no right way or wrong way to live after rape, one has to live the way she/he feels like https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/rape-and-sexual-assault But again those victims need so much support and care. They need to be reminded that life is beautiful however you see it, you have to be greatfull for that life. I can only imagine how they feel, and some of us have talked to the victims of rape but all we need to remind them is that they don't have to stay sad, isolated and depressed for some crazy person that didn't have respect for them and, remember,no victim is at fault here. Not in any way.make them know that they should not let those people control the rest of their life if you are a victim please consider this and live your life. Another thing is that there should be no tolerance to rapists for they have no excuse for their evil actions. They need to be reported no matter what and be punished severely cause they are no different from murderers. 

Considering the fact that this world we live in has changed so much that the worst is no longer the worst, if you are a victim never be discouraged by this cause in the end, the good doers are rewarded and bad ones punished. Justice can take time but it wins in the end. Let's work hand in hand to stop this and take care of those affected by rape. Stay safe people and be blessed.