H2H COMMUNITY SHAPING

  Relationship and choices Relationships as we all know are many. some are blood relationships others are made by choice. Well first of all, what is relationship itself? Relationship is the way two or more people are connected or related. As for choice, one can refer it to as decision or rather an option made independently. To relate the both, some of us choose to be in a relationship with different people or someone except those related by blood. In this life we need people in our lives besides our own family. And those people can be friends or partners, workmates and many more. Well those people don't come just like that it needs one to go out and interact with the world, meet people and therefore make friends or fall in love. As we were saying earlier, all these kinds of relationships are made by choice. sometimes people say destiny is involved though I can't deny but, still you have to have a hand in it. All of us have a right to choose who we get into a relationship with. ...

SELF DEPENDENCY AND COOPERATION AS THE KEY TO UNLOCK THE DESTINIES AND FUTURE FOR AFRICAN YOUTHS . Have you ever wondered how far you can go if you walk with others? As they say" you can go faster if you walk alone but you can go further if you walk with others. This is what today's youth need so as to be self dependent especially the African youth. To cooperate and be able to satisfy their own needs. Here when we talk of cooperation we mean the art of working together, be it two or more people so as to achieve a common goal, and this of course, can help the African youth be self dependent or rather, be able to satisfy their own needs as the new African generation, without depending on aid. It might take long for everyone to understand it or get used to it but, slowly by slowly it can work. When people put together their ideas and build them, in the long run they achieve bigger things which is beneficial to everyone. Well it's true that people can also come together for no...

  Discovering EQ(emotional quotient) To start with, one can ask what emotion is. Well, emotion is an effective state of consciousness in which joy, sorrow, fear, hate, or the like, is experienced, as distinguished from cognitive and volitional states of consciousness. It can also be taken as a feeling in short. I believe and I think each one of us accepts the fact that all humans have feelings and of course have different ways to express them. Talking about expressing ones emotions or behaviors towards an emotion, this kind of behavior is not that one that defines a person. Here we are talking about that behavior as a reaction that is triggered by the current emotion. One can also define that behavior as a way one reacts due to his emotions. Let's say someone is feeling Happy or is made happy, how does the person express his happy feelings? Does he shout? Cry? Talk of some one angry. How does that angry person react? Anger is the feeling here or the emotion inside that person. So...

Child abuse in families Many of us think that child abuse is all about physical abuse towards children but we don't know that it's more of that. It can be physical, sexual and psychological. And it's not done by outsiders only. Parents and  caregivers also abuse their children. Child abuse comes in different forms, some do it willingly and others abuse children unknowingly. In different communities all over the world you will witness child abuse and no matter what people have done to put an end to it, others don't listen. Many parents are still beating their children everyday and still want them to do multiple jobs ignoring their scars and wounds. Well some do it saying that it's a way of disciplining their children or they say they will understand more quickly if I put pressure on them or beat them if they did something wrong. But others do beat their children out of stress or when they feel they don't want them or many other different things like alcohol or ...

  Rape as known and heard by many, has been taking greater steps as years goes by and victims keep on increasing whereby, men also are getting raped as we speak now.  Rape being unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim has many despicable effects that even made many of the victims commit suicide. Why rape in the first place? What's influencing rapists?  We have to know that rape didn't start in this generation rather it's been happening for some many centuries only that these days it's recognized and in the past years women had no other option but to give in since culture at times had a hand in it whereby men forced their wives to sleep with them or young girls but it wasn't considered as rape. Due to the fact that men had great power over women and they could do anything with them, meaning their righ...

Culture assimilation is very common within African countries Rwanda inclusive. This is mostly common in Youth and causes conflicts in the society we live in simply because those who assimilate another culture seem to appear,behave and think differently compared to others around them. And i can't deny that it slows down development due to difficulties in adopting what we are not used to and loss of our uniqueness.Therefore, H2H community shaping has managed to collect data from different youth in different communities purposely to overcome that challenges the community is facing. Lets pass through the summary below Culture diversity The world is moving so fast and people as well. Many countries are changing and developing each now and then which is good though. Many of the African countries are showing a lot of progress and civilization is now the name to some African countries. This is good and encouraging but, some of the African countries are loosing their culture in the name ...