EARLY MARRIAGE & DEVELOPMENT

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Early marriage can contribute to drop out of school because not many Young people can be able to withstand the pressure of studying and do home related chores and sometimes the pregnancy occurs in the moment and thus is the main reason more people are stagnant financially as well as their well being .  @ EMMANUEL

The first advice I would give is to plan their lives ahead and try to look themselves in maybe 5 or 10 years ahead that helps not to get destructed by tempting things instead look ahead. The second is for people who are in those problems already, I would tell them embrace the moment and be open minded to be able to take opportunities that comes their way. @ EDSON

When we are young we have dreams and we want to fly higher as we can but also to make our dreams come true also requires commitment and sacrifices so many young people get into marriage by expecting too much and most of the time they don't have a plan and this affect the whole marriage cause to raise a kid requires many thing and especially financial thing and that's where the problem Begins cause as we know most of the young people doesn't have job and if they are underemployed they don't have good income and let's not forget they still have expectations of live how they want to lives they life how they gonna spend they money so In that proc ss of finding themselves it affect the development @ GICANDA MUKIRE Larissa

 When people get married at young age, they are plenty things they ignore or they're just young and so in love but when they reach at home things change, the way they lived change, responsibilities change, and they might end up divorce because they can't bear those responsibilities, or they're still willing yo live an easy life, so yes it can be one of the divorce causes. And about domestic violence when things at home don't meet your expectations yes it can result into domestic violence and at the same time partners end up killing each other. @ DANNY
For me it is big yes cause marriage also come with commitment and sacrifices when you get married cause your parents want you to get married or cause you friends got married so you feel like you are left behind so you too u have to do so first of all you are not ready mentally that's when you find young people get into marriage with high expectations when they find out that what they were expecting is not true that when we see divorce or home violence cz the engaged themselves to thing that they are not ready to handle @ UNKOWN




EARLY MARRIAGE AND DEVELOPMENT


Alot has been happening in this world, mostly with the youth and early marriage has been a topic and a story for so long. Why so?
Some get married out of family pressure, others out of peer pressure and for most of them out of early pregnancy. It's so sad that some have fixed marriages or marry each other even when they don't love each other that much. Such kind of marriages are the ones that have been leading to domestic violence considered that they don't agree to a lot of things and can't understand each other, which sometimes lead to murder and other serious domestic crimes.

Young people should realise that MARRIAGE is not all about being rich and having been done with school. It's not something that one can rush into or wake up one day and decide to get married. And for those that are forced by parents, they have to know that, forced early marriage is a human right violation that prevents one from obtaining an education and a lot of other things that one happen to be deprived of which, might even delay ones development or even the country's.

Early marriage can stop people from archiving their dreams provided that marriage itself comes with a lot of responsibilities and when children come in between it's another issue. which can stop you from continuing with your education.
Some young girls think that getting pregnant is a ticket to marriage. This isn't right. You can even raise your child on your own or get help from family members and, marriage can come later when you are fully prepared and old enough to handle marriage issues.
It even better if one gets married after having accomplished something big and he/she is stable enough financially and even psychologically cause that matters too.

Young people have a lot to enjoy in life as well as a lot to accomplish. It's good to get to that and enjoy them and not to allow things as early marriage to deprived you of all that. Some countries delay in development because of this. Most of the youth, being unable to serve their country at a young age due to early pregnancy and early marriage that delays their education and stops them from reaching their goals.
Let's all be careful with the decisions we make in life because, they might be the road to our prosperity or to our destruction.

you can also have access to other articles talking about early marriage and its effects
https://plan-international.org/7-child-marriage-stories?gclid=CjwKCAjw34n5BRA9EiwA2u9k30yOvfjR-gjAsA1ODQEfBlTOoAoag-oQgIwLilY4T1uNerfF7sdzFxoCjRkQAvD_BwE



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