SINGLE PARENTING AS A LIFESTYLE.


SINGLE PARENTING is a state or condition, by which a person who does not have a spouse lives with his/her child  or children. a person may become a single parent due to many reasons including death , divorce, breakups, abandonment of a partner or pregnancy before marriage. This condition of single parenting, when a single parent fails to fill the gap of another parent, it is accompanied by some effects like: school dropout of children, street kids, drug abuse and teenage pregnancy among others. Therefore, H2H COMMUNITY SHAPING has managed to gather information from different people on what they think about single parenting and possible applicable solutions to the problems accompanied by single parenting.

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AS illustrated by different people in the above testimonies, single parenting and its accompanied effects exist and is increasing day by day as statistics shows. But then, you can imagine why increasing? But as it was said by different people,
Now days people lack patience which results into unnecessary divorces. Moreover, people get married while not ready especially because of their parents. They also get married while running after something of interest like properties and money from their partners. But that’s not how it should be. Marriage is meant to establish a family and a family is the backbone of the society. Therefore, bad families result into bad societies.

 Now, ladies and gentlemen as suggested by different people, marriage should be driven by love other than other altnertives. That’s when you will be patient with your partner’s imperfections and construct an everlasting family that takes care of children for a better family and better society, with humanitarian people where we all desires to live.

 yes, your partner might not illustrate good behavior and, sometimes not doing his/her responsibilities, but sincerely speaking the solution to the problem is not leaving it, instead, you have to work it out. This will provide peace and happiness than going elsewhere. Ofcourse you might be kicked down by those problems but, you have to keep fighting. And most importantly no one is perfect not even you. Therefore, doing good as you can, can be the best way to change someone’s behavior and all the imperfections. 


furthermore, what if it all fails?
Dear parents, know your responsibility. Don't let your children be the victims of your problems. As you planned to marry each other, plan for the well being of your children so that when you divorce, your children will not highly be affected and force themselves into evils that destroy their lives. Furthermore, be a good parent and save for your old ages. 

Lastly, let’s look at youth especially ladies. unplanned pregnancy has been identified as one of the root cause of single parenting. Therefore, ladies and gentlemen if you feel not ready to raise a child, do not go through pregnancy. And if abstinence isn’t working for you, use other alternative and prevent pregnancy. 
 Furthermore, talk to your partner and plan everything to prevent all those effects. Be a good parent, create a good family while creating a better society for yourself and your future generation.” Be a humanitarian”

 LET’S WORK TO GATHER FOR A BETTER SOCIETY. PLEASE SHARE TO MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE FOR THE BENEFITS OF YOU AND I.💪💪💪

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  1. UnknownJuly 12, 2020 at 11:33 PM

    This is so great actually. I believe with people's awesome ideas we can make our society much better.

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